Hello everybody! So a bit of info about me first: I identify as asexual and aromantic since a little over a year, but I already had a hunch before when everyone was started showing interest in sex/romance and I didnt. I'm pretty much touch averse as well, like I hate being touched most of the time (there are exceptions but that's very person and situation based). Because I never had the desire for engaging in sexual activities there was never a "need" to go to a gynecologist, since most people start going there when they have their first relationship. However, ever since puberty I did notice having more hair growth (talking about facial hair) for a girl, and when my acne wouldn't go away the thought accured to me that I might have a hormonal imbalance. My mom suggested to me going to the gynecologist for this so they could give me something to balance my hormones, but I couldn't quite tell her why I feel so uncomfortable going there. Also, I'm not 100% sure what my question boils down to exactly, but any sort of experience from other aces with similar circumstances/ any advice on what I could do about this would be much appreciated. Thanks to everyone in advance!
tl;dr Advice for a touch-averse asexual that should probably go to a gynecologist but finds the thought very anxiety-inducing
Hello everybody! So a bit of info about me first: I identify as asexual and aromantic since a little over a year, but I already had a hunch before when everyone was started showing interest in sex/romance and I didnt. I'm pretty much touch averse as well, like I hate being touched most of the time (there are exceptions but that's very person and situation based). Because I never had the desire for engaging in sexual activities there was never a "need" to go to a gynecologist, since most people start going there when they have their first relationship. However, ever since puberty I did notice having more hair growth (talking about facial hair) for a girl, and when my acne wouldn't go away the thought accured to me that I might have a hormonal imbalance. My mom suggested to me going to the gynecologist for this so they could give me something to balance my hormones, but I couldn't quite tell her why I feel so uncomfortable going there. Also, I'm not 100% sure what my question boils down to exactly, but any sort of experience from other aces with similar circumstances/ any advice on what I could do about this would be much appreciated. Thanks to everyone in advance!tl;dr Advice for a touch-averse asexual that should probably go to a gynecologist but finds the thought very anxiety-inducing https://ift.tt/eA8V8J https://ift.tt/2r6s1cN
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