I'm about to be having my first abortion, and I don't know what to realistically expect?

So a little bit of a backstory. I was with this guy for about 3 months, give or take a couple of weeks and I ended up breaking up with him. He was too jealous, insecure, his living situation was unstable, he already has a child who the mother has custody of and it was just far too much for me to handle. I broke up with him and told him he should focus on fixing his life first, on his own, without me. 2 weeks later I found out I was about 4 weeks pregnant. In this time, being the master avoider that he is, he is already moving into another relationship. I told him and we fought over it as i don't want him involved in the decision, and I don't want his support, I just figured it was his right to know and I was very emotional the first couple of days.

I'm very firm on my decision to terminate. I am not keeping the child, I am not going through with the pregnancy, I am not giving it up for adoption, I am terminating it. That being said, I am a little worried about the anesthetic, the whole procedure, the hormonal imbalance afterwards etc.

Has anyone gone through this before and can give me a general picture of what to expect?

So a little bit of a backstory. I was with this guy for about 3 months, give or take a couple of weeks and I ended up breaking up with him. He was too jealous, insecure, his living situation was unstable, he already has a child who the mother has custody of and it was just far too much for me to handle. I broke up with him and told him he should focus on fixing his life first, on his own, without me. 2 weeks later I found out I was about 4 weeks pregnant. In this time, being the master avoider that he is, he is already moving into another relationship. I told him and we fought over it as i don't want him involved in the decision, and I don't want his support, I just figured it was his right to know and I was very emotional the first couple of days.I'm very firm on my decision to terminate. I am not keeping the child, I am not going through with the pregnancy, I am not giving it up for adoption, I am terminating it. That being said, I am a little worried about the anesthetic, the whole procedure, the hormonal imbalance afterwards etc.Has anyone gone through this before and can give me a general picture of what to expect? https://ift.tt/eA8V8J https://ift.tt/2lvvcbI

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