I'm freaking out and need reassurance that I'm not pregnant

I'm really sorry if this isn't the correct place for this, but this is the only community that I could really think of for this type of thing. Also, semi-TMI warning for some parts.

So I'm 15 years old and I've been getting my period since I was around 10? I'm not completely sure. It's always been an inconvenience for me but that's not really what this post is about. I've always dealt with it and my periods aren't very bad ever, so it's not like I'm bedridden for days and can't move.

I realized yesterday that I hadn't had my period in a while. Since it's quarantine and I haven't been paying much attention to time, I assumed that it hadn't been a month yet and I was just overreacting. I decided to check in a friend's Discord server, as I had ranted in there briefly once due to me having cramps during my period once it started, which wasn't something I was used to. I realized I had sent that message on 6/12, meaning it's been well over a month and I haven't had my period since then.

This immediately made me start freaking out about the concept of being pregnant, which is legitimately impossible as I'm a virgin. I'm asexual; I've never had sex and I'm never planning to. I've looked it up and I've seen that it's possible for periods to simply not happen some months due to stress, weight changes, etc. I'm not particularly stressed about anything (not counting this, but I mean more so for the last few weeks) and I haven't had any weight changes.

Is this normal? I've never skipped a period before as far as I can remember. I know it's literally impossible for me to be pregnant but I'm still worrying about it a lot. I'm worried that through some ungodly set of circumstances that I don't remember I could've magically gotten pregnant and I don't know what I would do then. When should I worry? Do you guys know of anything that could be causing this? I don't (as far as I'm aware at least) have any medical conditions like PCOS or endometriosis that would cause this. Is this just due to some hormonal imbalance or something that I can't control? Generally when I get my period my breasts feel sore for a bit and before it happens there's also more discharge than usual; that happened a few days ago, if I'm remembering right, but I still haven't gotten my period. I also feel generally sore and bloated somewhat? If that makes sense? But I can't tell if that's something to be worried about or if I've just eaten too much recently.

In general I'm really freaking out and would appreciate any kind of support or advice right now. I REALLY don't want to tell my parents about this. They're very republican and I'm worried that if I'm somehow actually pregnant I won't be able to get an abortion and then I don't know what I would do to myself. I've never looked forward to my period before but right now I am.

I'm really sorry if this isn't the correct place for this, but this is the only community that I could really think of for this type of thing. Also, semi-TMI warning for some parts.So I'm 15 years old and I've been getting my period since I was around 10? I'm not completely sure. It's always been an inconvenience for me but that's not really what this post is about. I've always dealt with it and my periods aren't very bad ever, so it's not like I'm bedridden for days and can't move.I realized yesterday that I hadn't had my period in a while. Since it's quarantine and I haven't been paying much attention to time, I assumed that it hadn't been a month yet and I was just overreacting. I decided to check in a friend's Discord server, as I had ranted in there briefly once due to me having cramps during my period once it started, which wasn't something I was used to. I realized I had sent that message on 6/12, meaning it's been well over a month and I haven't had my period since then.This immediately made me start freaking out about the concept of being pregnant, which is legitimately impossible as I'm a virgin. I'm asexual; I've never had sex and I'm never planning to. I've looked it up and I've seen that it's possible for periods to simply not happen some months due to stress, weight changes, etc. I'm not particularly stressed about anything (not counting this, but I mean more so for the last few weeks) and I haven't had any weight changes.Is this normal? I've never skipped a period before as far as I can remember. I know it's literally impossible for me to be pregnant but I'm still worrying about it a lot. I'm worried that through some ungodly set of circumstances that I don't remember I could've magically gotten pregnant and I don't know what I would do then. When should I worry? Do you guys know of anything that could be causing this? I don't (as far as I'm aware at least) have any medical conditions like PCOS or endometriosis that would cause this. Is this just due to some hormonal imbalance or something that I can't control? Generally when I get my period my breasts feel sore for a bit and before it happens there's also more discharge than usual; that happened a few days ago, if I'm remembering right, but I still haven't gotten my period. I also feel generally sore and bloated somewhat? If that makes sense? But I can't tell if that's something to be worried about or if I've just eaten too much recently.In general I'm really freaking out and would appreciate any kind of support or advice right now. I REALLY don't want to tell my parents about this. They're very republican and I'm worried that if I'm somehow actually pregnant I won't be able to get an abortion and then I don't know what I would do to myself. I've never looked forward to my period before but right now I am. https://ift.tt/eA8V8J https://ift.tt/33faeoA

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