My "godmother" humiliated me.

(Well, she's not really my godmother, my godparents died some time ago and she is their daughter.)

She visited us a month ago and she did the things listed below: 1.She took my phone and started to read out loud almost every conversation from my messenger right in front of my parents and making comments about people I talk with. She even opened my snapchat, discord and she even wanted to find my WhatsApp and Instagram. 2. Every time I said something she would disagree and respond in a very sarcastic and aggressive tone as if I am stupid. 3. When I was silent she would pretty much ignore me. 4. The last straw was when she pointed my acne and told me I should slow down with makeup(i had a bare face). I told her my acne is not caused by makeup but by hormonal imbalance which is caused by stress. Then she asked me aggressively why would I be so stressed out and to give her a reason to which I responded that I'm stressed with faculty. Then she told me in a mocking tone that if faculty is so hard for me I should quit and become a cleaner. At this point, I just started to cry because she was nasty with me since she arrived. When she saw me crying she just asked me aggressively why I'm crying. At this point, I lashed at her and called out her bullshit. She then tried to excuse herself saying that she just wanted to "help" me, telling me that I'm too young to be stressed and I don't really need a degree to be successful and she is "too sorry that she ruined my week". 5. Of course, after like 10 minutes she told my parents that she wanted to sign up for a master's degree.πŸ™„

She did all of this knowing very well that my grandfather died less than 2 months ago. ( she actually visited us because of this).

I'm suffering from chronic stress for 5 years. Everything stresses me and I really want to relax but I just can't.

+I'm sure she's not sorry.

(Well, she's not really my godmother, my godparents died some time ago and she is their daughter.)She visited us a month ago and she did the things listed below: 1.She took my phone and started to read out loud almost every conversation from my messenger right in front of my parents and making comments about people I talk with. She even opened my snapchat, discord and she even wanted to find my WhatsApp and Instagram. 2. Every time I said something she would disagree and respond in a very sarcastic and aggressive tone as if I am stupid. 3. When I was silent she would pretty much ignore me. 4. The last straw was when she pointed my acne and told me I should slow down with makeup(i had a bare face). I told her my acne is not caused by makeup but by hormonal imbalance which is caused by stress. Then she asked me aggressively why would I be so stressed out and to give her a reason to which I responded that I'm stressed with faculty. Then she told me in a mocking tone that if faculty is so hard for me I should quit and become a cleaner. At this point, I just started to cry because she was nasty with me since she arrived. When she saw me crying she just asked me aggressively why I'm crying. At this point, I lashed at her and called out her bullshit. She then tried to excuse herself saying that she just wanted to "help" me, telling me that I'm too young to be stressed and I don't really need a degree to be successful and she is "too sorry that she ruined my week". 5. Of course, after like 10 minutes she told my parents that she wanted to sign up for a master's degree.πŸ™„She did all of this knowing very well that my grandfather died less than 2 months ago. ( she actually visited us because of this).I'm suffering from chronic stress for 5 years. Everything stresses me and I really want to relax but I just can't.+I'm sure she's not sorry. https://ift.tt/eA8V8J https://ift.tt/3yQeCrp

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