So.. in May I(26HLF) had my tubes tied and had my birth control removed. Other than a small window of my life, I have been on BC since a teenager. So maybe my partner was always LL and... I was LL too. At least a normal libido. Just a theory.
Seriously. We didn't have sex for 9 months and it only bothered me after my BC expired and I got my tubes tied. My BC was hormone based and since I've been off I have lost a good amount of weight and gained libido. Holy shit. What do I even do with this? There are so many other factors to this obviously as my partner is not a 2 dimensional character but I think I just discovered the source or my sudden discomfort this year. I think we've only had sex 3 times since sugery. My mind is racing and I should probably tell him when I get a chance. He deserves the world and I'm so madly in love with him. I hope to find a good compromise soon for the both of us. Until then I'll just dive into my hobbies/studies.
Has this happened to anyone else? How did you deal with the change/imbalance?
So.. in May I(26HLF) had my tubes tied and had my birth control removed. Other than a small window of my life, I have been on BC since a teenager. So maybe my partner was always LL and... I was LL too. At least a normal libido. Just a theory.Seriously. We didn't have sex for 9 months and it only bothered me after my BC expired and I got my tubes tied. My BC was hormone based and since I've been off I have lost a good amount of weight and gained libido. Holy shit. What do I even do with this? There are so many other factors to this obviously as my partner is not a 2 dimensional character but I think I just discovered the source or my sudden discomfort this year. I think we've only had sex 3 times since sugery. My mind is racing and I should probably tell him when I get a chance. He deserves the world and I'm so madly in love with him. I hope to find a good compromise soon for the both of us. Until then I'll just dive into my hobbies/studies.Has this happened to anyone else? How did you deal with the change/imbalance? https://ift.tt/eA8V8J https://ift.tt/3BnWgyo
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