Any advice on being more aggressive in the bedroom?

For reference, I [27M] and my girlfriend [30F] of 1 1/2 years usually have sex about twice a month or so. She has some hormone imbalances and, honestly, that's all I really need in frequency.

In the past 6 months or so, she's made some remarks that make it clear to me she'd like me to be more aggressive in the bedroom. Which is not the first time I've gotten that request. I did football and boxing in high school and was an MA (Military Police) in the Navy, so every woman I've been with always expects me to be this hyper-aggressive male in the bedroom to only find out I'm quite gentle and sensual.

I've tried to be more aggressive a few times, but I find it difficult to do that with someone I genuinely care for.

She's finishing up a contract out-of-state, so the next time we see each other will be in a month or so. So, anyone got any tips to help me kind of spice things up next time I see her?

For reference, I [27M] and my girlfriend [30F] of 1 1/2 years usually have sex about twice a month or so. She has some hormone imbalances and, honestly, that's all I really need in frequency.In the past 6 months or so, she's made some remarks that make it clear to me she'd like me to be more aggressive in the bedroom. Which is not the first time I've gotten that request. I did football and boxing in high school and was an MA (Military Police) in the Navy, so every woman I've been with always expects me to be this hyper-aggressive male in the bedroom to only find out I'm quite gentle and sensual.I've tried to be more aggressive a few times, but I find it difficult to do that with someone I genuinely care for.She's finishing up a contract out-of-state, so the next time we see each other will be in a month or so. So, anyone got any tips to help me kind of spice things up next time I see her? https://ift.tt/86hdjnU https://ift.tt/BlxdGVD

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