I F been dating my BF M for 3 years now & he’s great in a lot of aspects I find important except the past months - 1 year I feel like he’s more of a brother to me & I’m not physically attracted to him anymore. We live together & spend 24/7 together because we don’t work at all. He’s 28M and I’m 26F

Hi everyone,

Please give me suggestions and advice on this. This is the biggest decision I’m making in my life.

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and he’s great in a lot of aspects I find important in life. He’s caring, respectful, and is willing to accommodate anything I want. He would be a great father, he’s great with kids and helps me with everything I need. My family loves him and I think he’s amazing except for the past months - 1 year I feel like he’s more of a brother to me and I’m not physically attracted to him anymore. We have been living together since the start of our relationship and spend 24/7 together because we don’t work at all not even work from home. So we are constantly together all the time. We have had to move from country to country every 2 months because of other reasons not important to this but we never had a stable living apartment where we stayed for more than 3 months. I have a hormonal imbalance that has gotten better and im working in making them fully balance.

I wanted to ask you all if the reason I feel like he’s more of a brother to me than a sexual partner because I don’t want to have sex with my brother, could it be from not having a stable living apartment for more than 3 months and us living together for the past 3 years since the start of our relationship. We literally see and do everything together 24/7. We don’t go on dates because I feel he’s my brother. Is us being together all the time the reason why I feel him like my brother?

Would anything help such as us being 8-9 hours apart everyday? For example one of us at least getting a job or does this feeling of him being a brother to me mean that this relationship is over forever and there’s no point in trying or getting help. I was suggested to go try sex therapy and relationship counseling with a psychotherapist but I do not know if that would help at all.

Can someone please give me opinions and advice. Thank you in advance everyone

TL:DR Been with him for 3 years and lived together since the start. He is amazing in everything. Kind, helpful, caring, amazing with children. Beyond helpful in everything. The issue might be, we do everything together and live together 24/7 we don’t even work from home. I stopped feeling sexual attraction toward him because he now feels more like a brother and I don’t want to fuck my brother. Would anything help such as us being 8-9 hours apart everyday? For example one of us at least getting a job or does this feeling of him being a brother to me mean that this relationship is over forever and there’s no point in trying or getting help. I was suggested to go try sex therapy and relationship counseling with a psychotherapist but I do not know if that would help at all. I once felt attracted to him. Anyone to get that spark back?

Hi everyone,Please give me suggestions and advice on this. This is the biggest decision I’m making in my life.I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and he’s great in a lot of aspects I find important in life. He’s caring, respectful, and is willing to accommodate anything I want. He would be a great father, he’s great with kids and helps me with everything I need. My family loves him and I think he’s amazing except for the past months - 1 year I feel like he’s more of a brother to me and I’m not physically attracted to him anymore. We have been living together since the start of our relationship and spend 24/7 together because we don’t work at all not even work from home. So we are constantly together all the time. We have had to move from country to country every 2 months because of other reasons not important to this but we never had a stable living apartment where we stayed for more than 3 months. I have a hormonal imbalance that has gotten better and im working in making them fully balance.I wanted to ask you all if the reason I feel like he’s more of a brother to me than a sexual partner because I don’t want to have sex with my brother, could it be from not having a stable living apartment for more than 3 months and us living together for the past 3 years since the start of our relationship. We literally see and do everything together 24/7. We don’t go on dates because I feel he’s my brother. Is us being together all the time the reason why I feel him like my brother?Would anything help such as us being 8-9 hours apart everyday? For example one of us at least getting a job or does this feeling of him being a brother to me mean that this relationship is over forever and there’s no point in trying or getting help. I was suggested to go try sex therapy and relationship counseling with a psychotherapist but I do not know if that would help at all. Can someone please give me opinions and advice. Thank you in advance everyone TL:DR Been with him for 3 years and lived together since the start. He is amazing in everything. Kind, helpful, caring, amazing with children. Beyond helpful in everything. The issue might be, we do everything together and live together 24/7 we don’t even work from home. I stopped feeling sexual attraction toward him because he now feels more like a brother and I don’t want to fuck my brother. Would anything help such as us being 8-9 hours apart everyday? For example one of us at least getting a job or does this feeling of him being a brother to me mean that this relationship is over forever and there’s no point in trying or getting help. I was suggested to go try sex therapy and relationship counseling with a psychotherapist but I do not know if that would help at all. I once felt attracted to him. Anyone to get that spark back? https://ift.tt/I8qyxdg https://ift.tt/t31N02j